The “We only live once. Let's live life to the fullest." Syndrome.

      Why is it that us humans have a tendency to have no problem taking a chance on something that might be harmful or damaging or even life threating, but we find it so difficult to take a chance on something that may result in a happier, healthier, or life extending outcome? This theory of “lets do what we want, when we want, no matter how bad it is, because we only live once”…is ridiculous. I can’t even say it’s “childlike” mentality because I have more respect for children than I do  most so called “adults”.If anything, trying the EASY way out by going down "negative" fuled choices tends to never have good results. By history standards, results most likely end badly with this idea of life because people listen to this and assume it means to do everything BAD - and do it often. By bad, of course, I don’t mean what society standards of bad are but what LIFE, SCIENCE, and LOGICAL standards are. If you eat too much bad crap, you will become unhealthy, overweight, diabetic, have a heart attack, get depressed, and potentially die, etc… If you do drugs, you will be unhealthy, damage your mind, lower your soul vibrations and potentially die. If you have too much sex with strangers (Esp unprotected) you risk STDS, unplanned pregnancies, multiple energies emobodded onto your aura from people you may not even want in your life, and potentially life changing issues and or death. See a pattern? Basically: Why ? Don’t you WANT to live a HAPPY life?  The logical fact is no matter what you do there is such a thing as the law of "Cause & Effect." So it's safe to say that making good choices & taking positive risks on things that have a potential for an EMPOWERING, LOVING, GROWING, & POSITIVE outcomes; will lead to a greater domino effect for you and those around you. Self-love leads to good choices which in effect lead to good results.

    I’m a huge risk taker. I love challenges. I love the eccentric, the weird, and the unknown. In a way, you may call me a rebel (with a LOVING cause lol) but I'm not an illogical person, hence my current risks are more focused on good options that lead me to a love filled positive lifestyle vs the negative choices I use to make that lead me to a negative & empty life.More so, I finally know how to follow my intuition a bit better,  which is the key to not going down the wrong rabbit hole. Granted it took me a lot of dark rabbit holes for years before I finally decided to take in this positive path, and I am still learning, but I'm definitely well on my way. I may have been more naïve when I was younger but I’ve lived and learned. Because that’s what you’re supposed to do in life: LEARN…. BUT if you can learn from someone else who has been through the fire then why risk getting burned yourself? I wish I would have listened to my sisters’ and or mother’s warnings at a younger age because I would have saved time and tears on a lot of crap. However, it’s never too late to change and be happy and apply the lesson LEARNED. PLUS, I am not my past or my future : I am my present. That being said...this theory of " Lets live life to the fullest" is great if used in a positive and productive way. Instead of risking all the bad things in life because you may not believe in afterlife or reincarnation…. How about taking chances on things you might not understand or believe too much yet but hear, read, and see that they may have positive everlasting happy results? For example, how about eating healthier.  Not happy with your body or your current health? Take a chance and try eating no meat and more veggies, and shopping organic, or buy that juice maker that is always on TV… or try that yoga thing everyone’s talking about. It's not about doing it because society has its ideas on beauty (cause thats ridiculous); instead its about loving yourself enough to want to take care of the well being & health of your body. Medicine not working? Look into holistic remedies and Chinese doctors and Eastern medicine, maybe even research more about what foods or tonics can help you. Your place is a mess and so is your life? Try and Google or YouTube how to Feng Shui and organize. Love life sucks, and your tired of being used? Change your pattern of love interest: Learn to say no and start loving yourself first. TRY… why not? What do you have to lose?

      Worse case scenario, with THIS new mentality of positive risk taking, nothing changes and you stay the same. Best case scenario, your life gets better in THIS life and you become a happier and fulfilled person. No death, no miserable constant sadness, nothing gets WORSE. And lets just say that perhaps there is REENCARNATION., and bettering your soul now doesn’t just make THIS life better but makes your NEXT life better… and that becomes YOUR evolution...well then consider that a BONUS. HOWEVER in full disclosure, like many laws of the universe, taking your own life to start a new one does not fall into the positive lifestyle credo. In fact, that isn't loving yourself. SO DON'T EVEN CONSIDER IT. Instead, focusing on not giving up on the one you have so that you can get closer to evolving as a soul of light & love.  A chance for a greater exsistence after learning lessons in this life:  GREAT! Well then that’s something to look forward to even more. Worse case, what if everything BAD you’re doing to yourself and to others now not only has consequences in this life but even more in your next life? Personally that’s a risk I’m not willing to take. I’m awake, I’m alive, and I have intuition….as everyone does. Therefore, having no soul would be the only excuse someone would have to be so harmful, and that IS IMPOSSIBLE unless you’re a robot. So out with that old mentality…. In with the new evolved mentality: LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLIEST - a FULLY POSITIVE life.